This post discusses a lot of experiences with bereavement, as well as alcohol and drug misuse stories. If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, you can call SAMHSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) and find more resources here.
We’ve probably all experienced having to put on a brave face and return to our everyday life amid a major personal struggle — whether that’s heartbreak, grief, or some other internal battle.
As we know, no one is immune to life’s ups and downs, not even the world’s most famous people. And because of that, there are a ton of examples of times that super famous stars have worked on major movies while navigating some pretty devastating personal difficulties.
So, without further ado, here are some films that you’ll watch totally differently after finding out what the stars were really going through when they cut the cameras.
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Gwyneth Paltrow in The Talented Mr. Ripley.
The Talented Mr. Ripley is one of my all-time favorite movies to rewatch every summer. But my perception of the film changed a little when I learned what was going on in Gwyneth’s personal life while shooting was underway.
Gwyneth was incredibly close with her late father, Hollywood producer Bruce Paltrow. Bruce died in 2002 due to complications from oral cancer and pneumonia. However, he’d been unwell years before his eventual passing — namely, around 1998, when Gwyneth was in Italy filming The Talented Mr. Ripley.
“It was also a hard time in my life. My father and grandfather were both diagnosed with cancer while I was on this film, and so I felt very far away and kind of helpless,” she told Vanity Fair this year. “I went into a bit of a downer while I was filming, as you can imagine.” One of Gwyneth’s childhood friends came to support her during the shoot, and they’d sometimes go back to the US for short periods when her dad and grandfather were having surgeries. She explained: “It was kind of a heavy time…People say to me all the time, ‘That must have been the best time!’ And I’m like, ‘Yes, and’—you know. It was a particularly hard time in my life, personally.”
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Heath Ledger in The Dark Knight
There’s a lot to be said about the various personal difficulties that Heath was facing in the months before his death in January 2008. However, his sleep struggles while playing the Joker in The Dark Knight were particularly problematic.
While filming was underway on the Christopher Nolan epic — which tragically came out just a few months after Heath died — the Aussie actor talked with the New York Times about suffering from chronic insomnia. “Last week I probably slept an average of two hours a night,” he said at the time. “I couldn’t stop thinking. My body was exhausted, and my mind was still going.” He explained that he often took the prescribed sleeping medicine, Ambien, but that one pill simply wasn’t enough. And even after taking two pills, he’d soon wake up from a short sleep with his “mind still racing.”
Heath fully immersed himself in the Joker performance, earning himself a posthumous Oscar nomination in 2009. It’s thought that his dedication to the dark role possibly exacerbated other issues he was facing, such as his insomnia. He died at 28 years old in January 2008. Authorities subsequently confirmed that he died from an accidental overdose of six different types of prescription drugs, including OxyContin, Valium, and Xanax.
The 2018 horror film Mandy is, at its core, about losing the love of your life. And right before filming began, something pretty similar happened to Nicolas: his marriage came to a sudden end. Nicolas and Alice Kim tied the knot in 2004 and had been together for nearly 12 years when it was confirmed that they’d broken up in June 2016. Alice was his third wife, and they share one son together. “It was a shocker for me — I definitely didn’t see it coming,” he said of the split in a 2018 Guardian interview promoting Mandy.
He didn’t say much about what happened, but the writer of the story noted that he looked “genuinely stricken” while talking about Alice. “She was quite young when I married her, and I don’t really have any ill will towards what happened. That’s all I’ll say. And now it’s like, wow, I’m 54 and I’m single again – I didn’t see that coming! It’s pretty grim.” As for how it impacted his work on Mandy, Nicholas said: “Those feelings had to go somewhere, so they went into the performance.”
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John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever
In the middle of production for Saturday Night Fever in 1977, John, who starred in the film as Tony Manero, had to fly back home to LA when his girlfriend, actor Diana Hyland, experienced a sudden health decline. Diana had had a mastectomy two years earlier, but, according to John, “didn’t know she was going to die for sure until two weeks before” it happened.
Diana died of breast cancer in John’s arms on March 27, 1977, aged 41. “I felt the breath go out of her,” he told People less than two months later. “I picked out a house, and Diana and I were planning on moving in right after this movie. If she was alive, it is very possible I would have married her…I have never been more in love with anyone in my life. I thought I was in love before, but I wasn’t.”
John soon returned to work on Saturday Night Fever, and with only a ten-day break in between films, he then headed off to shoot Grease. In his June 1977 interview with People, he described it as the “hardest ten weeks of [his] life.” To make this story sadder, more than 40 years later, John would lose his wife, Kelly Preston, to the same disease.
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Ben Affleck in The Way Back
Sometimes, acting roles can hit quite close to home, and that was very much the case when Ben played a divorced alcoholic in The Way Back in 2020, when he was newly sober and fresh off the back of his divorce from Jennifer Garner.
The Way Back stars Ben as Jack, a grieving father who returns to coach his high school basketball team. Ben has talked openly about his past struggles with alcohol misuse and various rehab stints — the most recent being in August 2018 — and the story of the film resonated with him. “I’m a recovering alcoholic and I played an alcoholic in the movie,” he said during a Hollywood Reporter roundtable in 2021.
“Alcoholism, in and of itself, and compulsive behavior, are not inherently super interesting, but what is sometimes interesting is what you discover about yourself in the course of recovery and trying to figure out what went wrong, how to fix it, how you want your life to look and what kind of ethics you want to live by,” he said. “So yes, I’m an alcoholic. Yes, I had a relapse. Yes, I went into recovery again. And then I went and did that movie.”
Along with grief and recovery, divorce is another big theme in The Way Back, and it so happens that Ben’s split from Jennifer was finalized in October 2018, around the time the movie began filming. While promoting The Way Back in an interview with the New York Times in 2020, Ben called his split from Jennifer “the biggest regret” of his life. In that same interview, the film’s director, Gavin O’Connor, told a heartbreaking anecdote about Ben having a “total breakdown” on set after filming a scene in which his character has an emotional confrontation with his ex-wife. “It was like a floodgate opened up,” the director said. “It was startling and powerful. I think that was a very personal moment in the movie. I think that was him.”
The 2024 film Poison is a devastating and moving tale about a couple who reunite after being torn apart by the death of their son. Tim, who stars in the film as a grieving father, found out that his own adult son had been diagnosed with stage 3 germ cell cancer right before filming began. Tim considered dropping out of the film, but decided to go through with it after his son, Cormac, encouraged him to. “He thought it was a good thing. He was probably wanting to get me out of the house as well,” the actor later told the Guardian. “It had his seal of approval, otherwise I wouldn’t have done it. If he needed me to stay close, I would have been staying close.”
Tragically, Corman died at the age of 25 in October 2022, just a few months after Poison wrapped filming. In 2024, Tim said the project now holds a deeper meaning. “The film was actually dealing with something which now is very, very poignant as far as our family is concerned,” he said. “There is no one way of grieving. People react differently — everyone does — otherwise there would be a cure for it.”
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Carrie Fisher in Star Wars: Episode V — The Empire Strikes Back
Carrie talked openly about her struggles with drug addiction and bipolar disorder, and until her death in December 2016, was a prominent mental health advocate. She was obviously best known for her work in the original Star Wars movies, which were filmed at a pretty turbulent time in her life. Speaking in 2010, Carrie revealed that she was navigating serious drug misuse on the set of the second Star Wars film in the OG trilogy, The Empire Strikes Back, which came out in 1980. “We did cocaine on the set of Empire, in the ice planet,” she said, admitting that she “didn’t even like coke that much.” “It was just a case of getting on whatever train I needed to take to get high,” she said, recalling her addiction.
Around this time, her friend and Blues Brothers co-star, John Belushi, who died of an overdose in 1982, told her that her drug use was problematic. “Slowly, I realized I was doing a bit more drugs than other people and losing my choice in the matter,” she said. “If I’d been addicted to booze, I’d be dead now, because you just go out and get it.” In 2012, Carrie referenced her drug use on the set of Empire again, this time, refuting fan theories that she had a visible “coke nail” in the film. “I never used my fingernail for drugs,” she posted on X, then Twitter. “I used dollars or tiny spoons like any other respectable former drug addict.”
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Chadwick Boseman in Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom
Chadwick’s death in 2020 shocked the world for many reasons, but mostly because his battle with colon cancer had played out completely privately, even to those who worked closely with him. A statement at the time of his death revealed that he received his diagnosis in 2016 and had managed to make a string of movies while undergoing chemotherapy and “countless surgeries.” Those films included titles like Black Panther, 21 Bridges, and Da 5 Bloods. But his last onscreen appearance was in Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom, which came out in 2020 and earned him a posthumous Oscar nomination the following year.
Though no one knew about his cancer battle, other cast members noticed Chadwick receiving extra support between takes. In a new interview with the Times this year, his costar, Viola Davis, detailed the special treatment he was getting on set, recalling that his then-girlfriend, Simone Ledward Boseman, and his makeup artist were often rubbing his back and playing meditative music for him. “There was a part of me that was a little judgmental — why do you need all that?” she confessed. “Little did I know that they were doing it because he was dying.”
9.
Elizabeth Taylor in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof
While starring in an adaptation of Cat on a Hot Tin Roof in March 1958, Elizabeth contracted a virus, which meant she was bedridden and had to cancel an already-planned trip to New York City with her husband, Mike Todd. Mike was being honored by the New York Friars’ Club, so he set off on the trip anyway. However, tragedy struck when his plane crashed, killing him and everyone on board.
Grief-stricken and heartbroken, Elizabeth compared herself to “half a pair of scissors” without Mike. Despite this, the movie’s director, Richard Brooks, was keen to get the film back on track, especially since Elizabeth’s previous illness had already delayed production. She stayed home in mourning for another month, but eventually returned to the set, apparently looking thinner and weaker. Filming was completed while Elizabeth was in mourning.
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Andrew Garfield in The Eyes of Tammy Faye
One of my favorite things about Andrew is how beautifully he talks about grief. And in 2024, he shared more about his own experience with loss, revealing that the filming schedule for The Eyes of Tammy Faye was re-worked at short notice in 2019 so that he could fly home to the UK to be with his mother, Lynn, in her final days. “What was amazing was that [Searchlight Pictures’ David Greenbaum] and Jessica [Chastain, his costar] rearranged the schedule last-minute — put filming on hold [in North Carolina] for a few days so that I could go back [to England] and be with my mom for 10 days,” he recalled to People last year.
Andrew’s mother died of pancreatic cancer, and he’s since praised Jessica for supporting him on the set of The Eyes of Tammy Faye, in which they played husband and wife. “We would have deep conversations because we were both getting to know each other as people,” he remembered. “I’m really very grateful for that time with her because it was the time when my mum was really sick and ultimately passed away.”
In a previous interview with Variety, Andrew talked about what those last days with his mom were like, revealing that they left “nothing unsaid.” “We had all the quality time we could possibly have while she was here,” he explained. “And those last two weeks I got to be with her were probably the most profound two weeks of my life.” After The Eyes of Tammy Faye wrapped, Andrew quickly began working on Tick, Tick…Boom! — the film that got him his second Oscar nomination in 2022.
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Keanu Reeves in Speed
Keanu was in the middle of shooting Speed when he learned of the passing of his close friend, River Phoenix, who died of a drug overdose in October 1993. Sandra Bullock, who starred alongside Keanu in Speed, told Esquire in 2018 that his heartbreak over the loss was impossible to mask on the set of the film, which came out in 1994. “I watched how Keanu grieved. And oh, did he grieve for his friend,” she recalled. “He’s very private, but he couldn’t hide that. And just to see that a man like that was able to grieve. And I remember thinking, God, if that’s the tip of the iceberg of his depth, and his level of love and care for a friend — that just draws you in.”
In that same Esquire interview, Keanu made some rare comments about his late friend and former costar, saying, “It’s weird speaking about him in the past. I hate speaking about him in the past. So I almost always gotta keep it present. He was a really special person, so original, unique, smart, talented, fiercely creative. Thoughtful. Brave. And funny. And dark. And light. It was great to have known him. To — yeah. Inspirational. Miss him.”
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Matthew McConaughey in Dazed and Confused
Dazed and Confused is famous for many reasons, not least because it gave us Matthew’s first-ever line spoken in a movie: “Alright, alright, alright.” He gave such a memorable performance as David Wooderson, you’d never guess that Matthew — then 23-years-old — was actually grieving his father’s sudden death.
Matthew found out that his dad, James, had died just a few days after shooting for Dazed and Confused began in the summer of 1992. Earlier this year, Matthew spoke with Interview Magazine and recalled the shock of his dad dying from a heart attack at 62 years old, admitting he “didn’t even think he was killable.” “Through the mourning and the pain, it’s the biggest moment of becoming a man,” the Oscar-winner said. “I remember feeling like, ‘There’s a certain safety net that I’ve always had behind me that’s gone.’”
With Matthew’s career about to take off, the timing of James’s death was even more tragic. But, in hindsight, the Interstellar star has said that he finds the timing of it all quite “beautiful.” “He didn’t ever come to the set, we didn’t talk about it, but he was alive for me to start something that was more than a fad, that would become something that I love to do,” he said in a 2023 podcast interview.
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Meryl Streep in Kramer vs. Kramer
Meryl got an Oscar for Kramer vs. Kramer, and her performance is even more impressive when you have the full scope of what she was going through when the film was made. For context, the 1979 legal drama tracks the custody battle between a divorced couple, Joanna, Meryl’s character, and Ted, played by Dustin Hoffman. The movie was filmed in 1978, and just a few months prior, Meryl’s boyfriend, actor John Cazale, died from lung cancer. Meryl had been by John’s side throughout his chemotherapy treatment and was there with him when he passed away. His death left her completely devastated — and things didn’t get much easier when she began shooting Kramer vs. Kramer.
Michael Schulman’s 2016 biography, Her Again: Becoming Meryl Streep, includes claims from a producer who said that Dustin would use John’s name to taunt Meryl on set to increase the tension between them and help get her into character. “[Dustin] was goading her and provoking her,” producer Richard Fischoff said, “using stuff that he knew about her personal life and about John to get the response that he thought she should be giving in the performance.”
Dustin was also accused of slapping Meryl in the face before shooting an intense scene early in the film. In 2018, Meryl said that the slap was “overstepping.” For his part, Dustin has confessed that he was “acting out” on Meryl “throughout the movie,” due to the “stuff that [he] was feeling toward the wife that [he] was divorcing in real life.” “I was getting divorced, I’d been partying with drugs and it depleted me in every way,” he said of the making of the film.
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Ariana Grande in Wicked and Wicked: For Good
Ariana’s remarkable portrayal of Glinda in the first Wicked movie was universally praised and even earned her a Supporting Actress Oscar nomination. But with all the hype, it’s easy to forget about the personal drama she was navigating while filming was underway between 2022 and 2024.
If you need a reminder, Ariana and Dalton Gomez tied the knot in May 2021, and just over a year into their marriage, she relocated to London to begin filming for Wicked. Dalton would come and visit her, but it wasn’t long before the marriage began to crumble. Their split wasn’t announced until July 2023; however, divorce documents stated their date of separation as Feb. 20, 2023. This was just over two months after Wicked began filming in December 2022, meaning that Ari was in the midst of her breakup during the shoot.
She’s not talked explicitly about this, although a number of songs on her 2024 album, Eternal Sunshine (and the subsequent deluxe version that came out this year), hint at emotional turmoil during the demise of a relationship and, notably, the strain of long-distance. You can read a breakdown of the tracks here and here.
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Mara Wilson in Matilda
Matilda is one of the most memorable family movies of the ‘90s, but, behind the scenes, Mara, the child-star who played the titular character, was grappling with her mother, Suzie’s, breast cancer diagnosis. Her onscreen parents (and real-life couple at the time), Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman, spent the shoot taking care of Mara, trying to make sure she was happy and supported.
“I remember feeling, when I was part of Matilda, that it was nice because I could focus on that and I could focus on everything good that was going on in my life. It felt very familial on that set,” Mara told Parade in 2013. “I was going through a hard time and I know I had hard days, but everyone on the film was so nice. Danny and Rhea were like my favorite aunt and uncle. It was wonderful.”
Suzie passed away in April 1996, about six months after Matilda wrapped. And while she wasn’t alive to see it hit theaters later that year, Danny, who was also the film’s director, went the extra mile to ensure that Suzie was able to see her daughter in the movie. In Mara’s memoir, she revealed that right before her mom died, Danny paid a secret visit to the hospital to show her a rough cut of Matilda, meaning she did get to see Mara’s performance.
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Hugh Jackman in The Son
Hugh’s father died midway through the making of his 2022 movie The Son, a sad film all about the relationship between Hugh’s character, Peter, and his troubled teenage son, who is experiencing depression. After tragedy struck in his own life, Hugh made the decision not to take any time away from set and, instead, worked through his grief. “My father actually never missed a day of work in his life,” Hugh told the BBC of this choice. “I did imagine what my father would say, and he would say, ‘Go to work.’”
Despite his willingness to push through, Hugh said he struggled mentally while making the film, suffering through sleepless nights. “I would be one of the least [likely] people I know who I’d describe as a hot mess, but I certainly was during this,” he said, recalling the film’s production. Though he didn’t take a break from work, Hugh was helped by a therapist on set.
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And finally, Michelle Williams in Mammoth and Shutter Island
We’ve already talked about Heath Ledger’s death, and, in case you didn’t know, Heath and Michelle were together for years and share a daughter, Matilda. The couple — who met on the set of Brokeback Mountain — broke up amicably in September 2007, and Heath died just a few months later.
Michelle and Heath were both living in New York. But, at the time of his passing, Michelle was actually in Sweden shooting “a sad film” called Mammoth. Upon hearing the news, she returned home, and around two weeks later, she arrived in Australia for his funeral on Feb. 7. Within four days, it was reported that Michelle had returned to work in NYC, filming the final scenes for Mammoth just a few blocks away from where Heath died.
After all that, you’d think Michelle would be able to take some well-deserved time off to properly mourn. But that wasn’t to happen yet, as, just before Heath’s death, she’d signed on to appear in Martin Scorsese’s Shutter Island, which began filming in early March 2008. Looking back on this whole period in her life and career, Michelle told GQ in 2012: “It was horrible…I don’t remember most of it. I’ve got a lot of holes.”
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