If we had a nickel for every time that a Love Is Blind Season 9 cast member left the dating experiment before the pods had closed, without telling their pod connections, we’d have two nickels.

During Season 9 of Love Is Blind, Anna Yuan took off without letting either of her dates know that she was exiting the experiment. Moments later, viewers watched as one of her strongest connections, Blake Anderson, chose to leave as well. While neither contestant gave a lot of insight into why they chose to leave the experiment, Blake told production, “Last night was a little bit of a wake-up call. I love this experiment, it’s been incredible, but, like, I don’t know if it makes sense to continue.”