[Warning: The following contains MAJOR spoilers for And Just Like That Season 3, Episode 9 “Present Tense.”]

The Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker) and Aidan Shaw (John Corbett) saga has been going on for over 20 years. Aren’t they tired? They got together, Carrie cheated with Big (Chris Noth), and they broke up. Carrie and Aidan gave it another go and even got engaged, but Carrie’s refusal to wear Aidan’s engagement ring on her finger was an ominous symbol of their fate. Carrie and Aidan ultimately broke up a second time, and Aidan went on to get married and have three kids. Carrie, as we all know, ended up with Big.