Sex and the City had its fair share of cringeworthy moments — and the 2000s-era HBO show certainly hasn’t aged well in some aspects — but sometimes we feel like the spinoff And Just Like That… is trying to turn us off (or trying to get us to turn it off).

In the HBO Max show’s Season 3 premiere, for instance, we had to sit through a deeply icky scene between Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker) and Aidan (John Corbett) trying to have phone sex. And that’s not the first time we had to grit our teeth and watch between our fingers. In honor of the show’s return, Swooon has rounded up our picks for the most uncomfortable moments — so far.