Spock’s (Ethan Peck) relationships have certainly been complicated in Star Trek: Strange New Worlds Season 3, and we’re just four episodes in!

When Chapel (Jess Bush) left for her fellowship in the premiere, she used that as an opportunity for space and told Spock not to wait for her. Then, she returned from said fellowship with a new boyfriend, Dr. Roger Korby (Cillian O’Sullivan), in Episode 2. That episode, thanks to Trelane (Rhys Darby), featured a wish of Spock’s putting everyone briefly in the middle of his and Chapel’s wedding. But after that situation was sorted (as well as before), Spock has been growing close with La’an (Christina Chong), as she taught him how to dance, while preparing for Chapel to return.